Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Virtual Sports Injuries - Xbox Kinect

We were given an XBox Kinect for Christmas, and like most people who watch the commercials, we thought it would be a great way to get the family up and moving around. It came with a dancing game and a couple of sports games.

We fired it up and put in the sports game. Now we had a party. My brother and I are very competitive, so we started with the tennis game. Like other gaming systems, for the Xbox Kinect to work, both people have to be standing in front of it. Probably not a good idea for tennis.

The first match went off without a hitch. We were both sweating and ready for round two. My brother swung for an overhead smash that caught the pull cord on the ceiling fan and sent it flying up into the fan where it was promptly cut off by said fan and sent hurdling across the room. We should have taken that as an omen.

In the last set, my brother was trying to return a vicious backhand from me. Unfortunately, his forehand had a blazing spin on it that not only went past my virtual character, but also caught me in the back nearly rupturing my kidney. We decided to take a break and let the kids play.

My kids started first and my daughter landed a wicked backhand that gave her brother a fat lip. Although, to his credit, he responded with a killer forehand that stayed in bounds and gave his sister a bruise on the shoulder.


We thought it might be best to change games, so we moved to virtual track. This time I talked my husband into playing. We started with hurdles. He had to sit down after he hurt his knee on the fake jump leaving me alone to start the javelin. I knew I had to give it my best shot, so I flung my virtual javelin for all it was worth, promptly spraining my shoulder. How does the even happen? I threw air!



We didn't do much better with the dance game, and before the night was over, we were all sweating and lining up for ibuprofen and ice packs. Who knew virtual sports could be so dangerous?

Monday, July 29, 2013

The Chocolate Bar I'd Kill For

Awhile ago, my friend, Shelbi, and I were visiting my sister. One night, they had invited some friends over for dinner. It wasn't long after Halloween, so after we ate, they brought out the left over candy bars, and we all started picking out our old favorites.

My brother-in-law is from Ireland, and his brother had just come back from England with some chocolate from there. I was surprised that the company names of the bars were familiar, but not the chocolate bars themselves. Why would companies like Nestle and Cadbury keep certain types of chocolate bars from us?

We took turns sampling the different candy bars, and they were very tasty. Then he brought out a Boost bar by Cadbury. I took one bite, and my hand gripped tighter around it as I chewed. Everyone else was talking about the other bars, but they hadn't yet tasted this little slice of heaven. I considered shoving the whole thing in my mouth, but Shelbi started looking at me and waving her hand for me to pass the Boost bar to her for a taste. I smiled and handed it over begrudgingly.

All it took was one bite, and she had the same desperate look that I did. "How can I hog this whole bar for myself?" By then, we were starting to draw attention from the rest of the group who noticed the introduction of the new candy bar. Shelbi was forced to pass it on, and we watched longingly as, one by one, the Boost bar infected each of us.

We all tried to play it cool, like it didn't matter if we were able to get a second bite. We kept talking a chatting pleasantly, but all eyes were on the Boost bar as it made the rounds. Everyone was secretly wondering if there was enough of the bar to make it around the table twice.

Then someone made the mistake of asking if there was another one. In slow motion, my brother-in-law said "Noooooooo." That was it. We all started to turn on each other. Monitoring how much each person bit off the bar. It got ugly. I wondered if I could snatch what was left and lick the whole thing before anyone could jump on me.

I was on one side of the table with my sister and Shelbi. I could probably get past my sister (she's small). Shelbi has back problems and can't run, but I would have to take her cane with me, so she couldn't hit me or hook me before I got out of range. Glancing around the table, I could tell by the looks on everyone's faces that they were also making their own Boost getaway plans.

When the last of the Boost bar was finally gone, it took the joy of the party with it. We all missed the Boost bar and knowing we couldn't get it here in the US only made it worse. All the chocolate in the middle of the table had lost its appeal.

But all is not lost! Thanks to the internet, Boost bars can be shipped right to my house! Ha ha Cadbury, your evil plan didn't work, or maybe it did...


My son wanted you all to know he did the picture for me. Yes, I'm officially old. I asked my kid to do something on the computer because I didn't know how. Hey, at least I can work the DVR. Usually.

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Indie Artist Radio Station: 92.6 The Blitz

I love to share great indie news, and this is an awesome one. A good friend of mine and fellow indie author, Thomas Amo, has started an internet radio station to showcase indie artists as well as great music from the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s.



It’s called 92.6 The Blitz with DJ Tom Slick. Tom not only plays great music, but shares the latest in indie news including information about authors, musicians, and filmmakers.

The Blitz is not 24 hours yet. Tom Slick’s show, The Morning Brew, can be heard from 9:00am to 11:00am PST Monday through Friday. More programming is going to be added later including interviews and fun shows like Writer’s Playlist and Roadie Rage.

For more information, you can check out The Blitz blog. If you are interested in a shout out, advertising, or other questions or comments, send an email to 92.6theblitz@gmail.com. They’d love to hear from you!


Like them on Facebook! And don’t forget to send in your “mugshot!”

Friday, July 12, 2013

Real Life Romance

You all know I’m a sucker for romance, so imagine my delight when I learned a family member had a wonderful story to tell.

My dad’s brother was an amazing human being. He was a gigantic, fun loving man. I remember when he used to have me and my brother lock our hands over his biceps, and he’d lift us up and spin us while we laughed hysterically. His wife was a quiet woman who was deeply devoted to her faith and her family. They had three amazing children together and lived a wonderful life in Southern California.

Many years ago, my uncle had a heart attack. The paramedics were able to bring him back, but they believed he was dead for some time. At the hospital, they asked my aunt what she wanted to do. She was unable to sign the papers that would have taken him off life support. Oddly enough, he started to improve, and was taken off life support. He eventually woke up, but he was not the person he was before. The damage to his brain had left him childlike, including fits of aggression. My aunt brought him home and with the help of their kids, she took care of him until heart disease eventually took his life. After his passing, my aunt focused on her family, work, and church. 

I hadn’t seen my aunt in many years when she called me out of the blue the other day. She said it was on her heart to see my dad and wanted to know if she could visit. I told her we would love to see her. She said she was bringing her mother, and she had…met someone. I was so excited for her. Their story is amazing.

They were high school sweethearts before she met my uncle. They were deeply in love, but he left her to join the seminary. She was heart broken. Very recently, they met up again at their high school reunion. His wife had passed away last year. They started talking and decided to keep seeing each other.

They both looked so happy. It was wonderful to see my aunt smiling and blushing. He is a wonderful man. I really enjoyed talking to him, and my cousins like him as well. My aunt's mom cracked me up. She said that he could only break her daughter’s heart once. So she was giving him one more chance to make it right. I’m betting he will. I’m wishing them both a happily ever after!



If you have a romantic story, please share! I’d love to hear it.

Monday, July 8, 2013

Indie-Credible Authors Tour

Hi! Sorry I've been away. I got a fun email awhile ago inviting me to participate in the Indie-Credible Authors Tour that’s going to be running the month of September. I am so excited! This is modeled after the Authors Are Rockstars Tour. They have a fun list of writers compiled, and they’re now looking for bloggers to host their fave authors or meet new ones!


If you are interested, you can get more info and/or sign up on either


OR


They have a few author spots left, but you need to hurry! Hope to see you there!



Monday, June 17, 2013

Zombified Release Party with Author Jean Booth!

My good friend and fellow author Jean Booth is stopping by my blog today to share the news about her latest Zombie War book, Zombified. These books are awesome zombie fun! Be sure to keep up with this blog tour to win some great prizes! Check out her other books as well on her Amazon Author Page.



Zombified Release Party!!

Join us on Friday, June 21, for the release of Zombie War: Zombified, the final chapter in the Zombie War Trilogy by Jean Booth!



Zombie War: Zombified

Supporting her brother during his experimental treatments, Jessica finds herself betrayed by the one person she loves more than anything. Now she's forced to either give up, or find a way to survive with what he's done to her. Craving things she never imagined, her body has transformed into a killing machine, bent on consuming the one thing she can't live without - brains.

After months of killing, Jessica searches for a way to either end her existence or continue on without having to constantly kill others. She hears of a group of survivors and knows this is her chance. Now she'll either live or die. The choice would be Sarah's, the leader of this band of survivors.

Wounded from the fighting, infected blood mixing with hers from the slaughter, Sarah finds herself fighting for her life. Will her boyfriend, Matt, help her end it all, or will she become the monster they've been fighting against and devour all those she'd come to protect?

While watching Sarah struggle with the infection, Matt wonders, "Could I kill the one I love, to survive?"


On Friday, June 21, there'll be a crazy fun blog party going on – The Zombified Release Party!  Jean will be hosting on her blog that day and is inviting anyone who’d like to participate, to join.

Here’s all you need to do –
Stop by Jean’s blog on Friday, June 21 and leave a comment – this’ll enter you in the drawing for signed copies of any two of Jean’s books – your choice!

Post a picture on your blog of you dressed up for Halloween and tell us a little about that fun time in your life, link it to Jean's blog and you'll be entered into the drawing for signed copies of any three of Jean’s books – your choice! 



On Friday, June 21 post a review of any of the Zombie War books (Zombie War: The Beginning, Zombie War: Little Apocalypse on the Prairie, or Zombie War: Zombified) or an interview of Jean on your blog and get entered into the grand prize drawing for a $50 Amazon gift card!



Zombie War: The Beginning

As a nurse in the genetics department, Sarah witnessed firsthand the mutation of the AIDS vaccine. The affected patients attacked other people, craving the power of the human brain. The vaccine turned viral, spreading quickly. Sarah was among the few survivors of the initial attack, quickly learning how to defend against the undead horde. Would she make it in time to save those she loved? Even if she did, how would they survive in this horrific new world?





Zombie War: Little Apocolypse on the Prarie

It's been six months since the vaccine went bad and introduced zombies into the world. Matt and Sarah have gathered all the survivors they could find, protecting and teaching them how to survive in this post-infected world. They've arranged for one last raid into town to try and survive through the oncoming winter. Trouble is, no one could truly prepare them for what they encounter once they arrive. 

Those remaining on the farm have been trained and organized into a cohesive unit. Would they be strong enough together when it really matters? Would any of them survive the Little Apocalypse on the Prairie?





Jean Booth was born in the sweltering Vegas desert. She moved about during her childhood until returning to her roots in Northern Nevada. She's happily married with 9 cats as her children. For the entirety of her adult life, she's worked in healthcare, battling insurances and poor staffing to provide great care to those who need it. Her greatest escapes are the stories found in books and in her head that she's finally decided to share. She can be found at http://www.JeanBooth.com

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Monday, June 10, 2013

IRS Abuse of Power Part 2 - Our Struggle

After writing the blog about the trouble we are having with my father and  the IRS (read it here), I have been overwhelmed by the response. People have offered encouragement and tips, expressed outrage, and have even shared their own IRS horror stories. I am so grateful to all of you who have commented, shared my blog on Facebook and Twitter, and sent me private messages of support.

What I didn't talk about in the last blog is our attempts to resolve this issue with the IRS. When my dad moved in with us after finding out about his terminal neurological disorder, I helped him apply for disability. Not long after he started receiving benefits, the IRS put a levy on his social security benefits and started taking $300.00 a month. We didn't know about his tax problem at the time, so my brother and I sat down and talked to him about it. He said the original tax bill was somewhere around $50,000. We found out that he sent them a check for $25,000, but could not afford to pay the entire amount. Due to his medical condition, he had started to make bad business decisions and had trouble keeping track of his finances including things as simple as balancing his check book.

I told him that the tax bill needed to be taken care of, so if the IRS was taking $300.00 a month, that would help pay it off. After that first year, the IRS increased the amount they were taking to 70% of what my dad was getting, causing some financial problems for him, and also for my husband and myself since we were having to pay more of his care costs.

In the meantime, my brother called the IRS to find out what was going on with dad's case. They asked him fill out a power of attorney which was standard and then fax it to them while he was talking to them the next time. We got the necessary paperwork and filled it out putting my brother and myself on the power of attorney to be able to act on dad's behalf. This was in 2007.

My brother called the IRS back and faxed the paperwork while he was talking to them on the phone as they requested. They only gave us minimal information even with the power of attorney and said it would take several months to process it, so we needed to call back. We told them we needed all the paperwork concerning our father's case, so we could get the matter resolved. They said we would have to wait until the power of attorney was processed. We waited several months and called back. They had no record of our power of attorney, so my brother faxed it again and sent them certified copies by mail, but we got the same story every time we called. This nightmarish circle continued for over a year. No matter how many times we mailed or faxed powers of attorney, they were never recorded or approved.

We decided to get a certified tax specialist involved who is actually an Enrolled Agent -- a CPA who has to take a special test administered by the IRS. These people can act on your behalf with the IRS. She was very experienced and accepted my father's case. When she contacted the IRS to get his paperwork, she ran up against the same problem. No matter how many times she sent in a power of attorney, it kept disappearing. They never registered her power of attorney. She eventually dropped our case.

We have continued in that same circle with them saying they want us to fill out a power of attorney and expense/earnings report, but they never get approved or processed, and you can NEVER speak to the same person twice. This last year, my brother lost his mind on the IRS person he talked to, threatening a lawsuit, and they started sending the paperwork. It still took a year and numerous phone calls to get all of the paper work we needed to take to the new CPA.

On the last report we received, we were relieved to see that my brother was finally listed as having power of attorney. When they pulled this last trick and started taking 100% of my dad's funds, leaving him with no money to live on and no money for us to move him into the facility he needs for his care, my brother called to try to talk to them about this issue. The person he talked to told my brother that he didn't have power of attorney. My brother told him that he did, and that he was listed on the paperwork we received from the IRS as having power of attorney. They IRS employee said that he didn't and hung up on him.

I tried to call since dad was here. I could have him talk to them and tell them they could talk to me. When the IRS employee got dad on the phone, she started grilling him for information until he got so upset and confused he turned red and couldn't talk. I took the phone from him and tried to explain to the woman that they were taking 100% of his benefits and that he needed care. I told her I had a letter from UC Davis explaining his medical condition and his need to be placed in a care facility. She said she didn't want to see it because it wasn't important. She directed me to fill out a power of attorney, and threatened to hang up on me for being upset and raising my voice.

It has finally dawned on us that they don't want to resolve the issue as long as they can keep taking his money. The people you talk to at the IRS are not authorized to resolve anything. They are there to gather information and try to get more money. Their offer to resolve tax problems is just a bunch of smoke and mirrors to keep you running around in circles filling out forms they never process while they continue to take your money. You have to hire professionals to actually fight them, but they don't leave you any money to pay for it. We were told to contact the tax advocate who helps when the IRS is not cooperating. They told us to fill out a power of attorney.

What started out as a $50,000.00 tax bill that my father paid $25,000.00 towards has ballooned out of control. With interest and penalties assessed by the IRS, they now say he owes almost $250,000.00. When we figured out the money they have taken from his disability benefits and the $25,000.00 check he sent them, he has paid close to $100,000.00. The $250,000.00 is what they say he still owes for a grand total of about $350,000.00 for that initial balance of $25,000.

The IRS has a list of tax payers rights including this one -- it is your right not to pay more than you owe. I figure that keep that list in the garbage can along with all the powers of attorney.